If, like me, you have a homeschooled child approaching highschool age, well done! Give yourself and your child, heck, give your whole family, a big pat on the back. Not many of us make it this far.
Have you noticed that most of the mums in the online groups have tiny tots? Did you spot that the bulk of the kids at homeschool group are under 10? When was the last time you clicked open a homeschooling blog and saw children above waist height?
Not many of us make it this far, for many reasons. I’m sure you can imagine that some kids want to go back to school, some parents can’t cope anymore, some families need to revert to double incomes and sometimes, high school just seems too daunting.
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Well done to all involved for having at homeschooling highschool. I’m sure even one or two years of learning at home will have enriched and improved childhood and family life but should you and could you homeschool highschool aged kids?
But here I am, with an enormous boy of 11, almost as tall as me, facing homeschooling through highschool.
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We’re Not Conventional Homeschoolers
Just to put the record straight, we’re not the sort of homeschoolers who buy boxed curriculum and have rules, schedules and timetables. That will never be us in a million years, we’re ultra relaxed, verging on unschoolers. I use homeschool as an umbrella term to cover it all. We dabble with project based unschooling, use workbooks and online courses. Mostly, we worldschool, we travel full-time and have done for 2.5 years.
So whatever homeschool hat you wear, this post is for you. As I see it, we’re all the same, joined, connected and intertwined in wanting the best possible education for our kids.
Outcomes from Homeschooling Junior School
I have two happy, healthy kids with a great knowledge base and excellent life skills.
That’s a great result. What more could anyone ask?
We have a strong bond and a good relationship born of spending so much time together. There are no secrets, resentments or unknowns. We’re tight-knit and comfortable.
There have been times I’ve faltered and worried, concerned that the reading or writing wasn’t at the point it “should” be but now, at 11 years old, everything feels fine.
Child 1 is bright, sparky, cool, happy, friendly, a voracious reader and a sponge for knowledge. Most of it obtained in non-conventional ways.
He makes friends easily, with people of all and every age and background.
I’m very, very proud of him.
So if you’re faltering at 8 years old, at 9 or 10, have faith. Between 10 and 11, a lot changes!
How Will We Homeschool HighSchool
If I tell you right now, today, how we’ll proceed right through to 18 years old, that blueprint for education will be obsolete within the year. Maybe it will change within the week, but here’s how I see things going.
I will continue to support and encourage my beautiful, amazing kid in anything he wishes to do.
My child will not be returning to school to sit exams at 16 or 18. Unless of course, he wants to.
I don’t think, at this point, that he will want to go to university, but that may change. I’m cool with that.
We’ve discovered the British iGCSE system, I will encourage him to sit maybe 1 iGCSE of his choice, early, and see how it goes. If he likes it maybe he’ll want to do more. No school attendance is required, the kids just turn up and sit the exams.
We will try to cover the content of the high school courses in our own way. I’ve bought course books for various subjects, including science, geography and religious education (his choice!), They are for me to read so that I can gently prod him in the direction of the learning experiences that will help him, should he wish to sit exams. I want to keep his options wide open. What I find, every time we buy a book, is that he already knows most of that stuff already, he’s picked it up through life and our travels.
He is learning Romanian through immersion, if he wants to sit an exam in a Language, I feel this will be his choice. Or maybe he’ll revert to Spanish, his favourite thing to learn from our time in Central America.
I will continue to get him to write or type, just for a very short time, whenever we have down time away from travelling. This approach is what he needs and has helped him improve his skills. He taught himself to touch type, through choice. It was the first glimmer of self-directed learning.
He will continue to practice maths, again, something we’ve found beneficial.
I think he’d love to learn a few extra skills, maybe play guitar or drums. He’s enthusiastic to practice archery. I’ll do my best to facilitate that. Because our life is non-conventional we’re in a position to invite travelling volunteers to live with us, maybe we can find a guitar player to while away a month or so on our mountain and share his gift.
What I really wanted to say today is don’t give up. It will happen and come good. A year ago, on his 10th birthday, I was tearful and worried about our lack of obvious progress. There was no sign of this self-initiated learning actually happening. Now it’s started. I’ve seen it and it works. Stay strong, keep the faith, all will be fine.
Homeschooling Highschool. Outcomes and COVID
I wrote this post a long time ago. The 11 year old in this post is now 16 years old, his brother, 14. I have two children homeschooling highschool, or do I?
COVID came and changed the world. We found ourselves stuck at home for, so far, 6 months. We were bored. We decided to mix things up, so I put the boys into an international online school.
This is honestly one of the best things we ever did. They slotted straight into highschool classes and missing fifteen years of formal schooling didn’t seem to affect them at all.
This school prepares kids for iGCSEs but currently, with lockdown, we don’t know if we’ll be able to fly to an examination centre next year. You see, we found ourselves in Australia, all borders are closed. So maybe they will sit iGCSEs and iA levels, maybe not. For now they’re having fun with it. It’s so much better than a regular school, and the reasons for that, will be in another post.
UPDATE: They did sit exams and passed. I’m very glad now that the burden of homeschooling highschool was lifted from my shoulders for those two years. It would have been a lot of work and pressure. The online school was very expensive but we still had all of the advantages of the whole family being at home, together, during the highschool years. I’m glad I didn’t ever feel any pressure or need to put the kids into a conventional highschool.